Bethany is a fellow mother grieving the loss of her daughter. She has invited others into her heart by sharing her journey. Her faithfulness to let God use her for healing in the lives of others is an inspiration.
When Bethany asked people to share how her daughter Lucy has impacted their lives, I wrote this:
Lucy has held a place in my heart from the first time you shared her with us through your blog. I grieved (though at the time in ignorance) with you and your family. I appreciated your honest wrestling and I was blessed by your continued reliance on God’s promises even when trust was hard.
Then when Dominic died, you reached out to me and became a safe harbor where I could rest when the storm threatened to overwhelm me. Almost twenty years my junior, you have taught me so much.
And now, I am encouraged to share my journey of losing an adult child because of your boldness.
Dominic was always so good with little kids. They loved him. I feel joy when I imagine them together waiting for us to join them.
I would NEVER wish the pain we carry on anyone. But you have shown me that it can be redeemed.
Love you dear one. May God continue to open doors of opportunity because of Lucy.
~Melanie
Read and be blessed.
PSALM 22:10 WHEN I LEFT THE WOMB YOU CRADLED ME; SINCE THE MOMENT OF BIRTH YOU’VE BEEN MY GOD.
Three years have passed since my baby Lucy went to heaven. It always seems a bit ironic to me that the worst day of my life was the best day of Lucy’s life. Since I haven’t experienced heaven yet myself, this is just a theory, but I imagine that for all of the citizens of heaven, the best day of their entire lives was the day they arrived. That was the day that their pain was erased, their bodies were healed, their sadness replaced with joy, their losses redeemed and their fear completely swallowed up by Love. From the slum to paradise. Such a sharp contrast. I’m trying to be happy for my baby today, but my heart aches from such a long separation. This day always brings back devastating memories…
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