Child loss is not a single event.
Of course the moment when the last breath leaves a body is noted and duly recorded because the law requires such. I can pull out Dominic’s death certificate (what an ugly thing to have to say about my child!) and it reads: Time of Death: 1:10 a.m. April 12, 2014.
But I didn’t know about it until 4: 15 that morning when the deputy rang the bell.
So for me, his death came then.
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Melanie. I see your 10 th year has arrived. I dread these dates on the calendar and am sitting on 8. I agree totally about the time of Drews passing. 2:45AM for some and 5:05 AM for me.
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Very well stated!! It is 4 years for me…his leaving this life echoes in all aspects of my life. Jake’s mom…Forever 20💙
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