Grief Journey: Yep. Still Here.

I’m sharing this post again because it is relevant to some choices I am currently pondering.

If you’ve joined me in this space for very long, you will know that I have never been inclined toward making the blog a commercial interest and I’m still not tempted to do so.

The idea of trying to be an “influencer” or to be under pressure to produce content sounds absolutely awful and Dominic would absolutely HATE it.

My story is not for sale.

That said, I am still here, still writing (not as much as in years past) and still pursuing ways to share my story, support bereaved parents and to educate the general public on what grief is and how it impacts a heart forever.

❤ Melanie

Recently I was challenged by someone close to me to examine the impact on my heart of spending so much time in community with those whose loss was fresher and more raw than my own

They were being neither judgmental nor argumentative.

They were coming from a genuine place of concern, grace and love.

So I took the opportunity to take a step back and reevaluate whether or not I need to continue writing in this space, spend time reading and responding to posts in bereaved parents’ groups and ruminating on how grief has changed over time (now seven plus years!).

It was an excellent exercise.

Read the rest here: Challenge Accepted: Why Am I Still Here?

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Author: Melanie

I am a shepherd, wife and mother of four amazing children, three that walk the earth with me and one who lives with Jesus. This is a record of my grief journey and a look into the life I didn't choose. If you are interested in joining a community of bereaved parents leaning on the promises of God in Christ, please like the public Facebook page, "Heartache and Hope: Life After Losing a Child" and join the conversation.

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  1. Melanie

    Our son Paul swept to Heaven Easter morning April 5, 2015 home from college for Easter weekend Celebration. Paul was visiting local friends attending SMU struck from a drunk driver while walking with friends . Paul died about 5 minutes After being hit, surrounded by his group of 8 all 20 year of age like Paul college friends. Yes about a year after your Dominic swept to Heaven too soon. Melanie your words have kept me on Earth , prevented me from wanting to unhealthily Join Paul in Heaven. My bereaved broken hearth soaks in every blog you share. In the 9 years I have been following your life changing blog I have shared your bereaved support site with many other bereaved moms who share me how effective your blog words are in each of their personal bereaved mom grief journeys. Melanie thank you so deeply for sharing your huge blog share gift and your big heart that has helped so many of us survive on this Earth ( how to manage / navigate this horrific child loss grief journey ) until we join our child in the Glory World one day .

    God Bless You Melanie

    Mary Ann Miltenberger Southlake Texas ( Dallas suburb )

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