Yay For Naps!

Historically many of the most prolific and influential people (think Winston Churchill) have been proponents of mid-day naps.

But for a Type-A personality whose life experience has amplified internal voices that scream, “Make every moment count!” naps feel like being lazy and wasting time.

I have resisted that after-lunch malaise for most of my life because I was convinced giving up an hour or more to sleeping would rob me of vital productivity and mean my list of “things to do” would languish, undone.

Recently (very, very recently-like only a week) I’ve tried to overcome my personal reluctance to give in to my body’s need to rest and have (gasp!!!) been going upstairs, lying down and taking a nap.

I still wake rather confused, disoriented and feeling like I’ve *wasted* whatever time was spent sleeping. But I have noticed that, contrary to what I anticipated, my night time rest has become more effective and restorative.

Like many of my fellow bereaved parents, my health has deteriorated following my son’s death. I was already diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis and have been through five different treatment regimens trying to address its insidious, progressive nature in the past seven years. I’m trying to come to terms with what amounts to premature aging and the limitations that represents but it’s hard.

I’ve also (ridiculous, I know!) still not adjusted to the FACT that I don’t have as many daily responsibilities as I once had as mama to a brood of four whom I homeschooled and chauffeured around to various extra-curricular activities.

It’s just me and my retired husband.

We can eat sandwiches or skip a meal altogether.

And if something’s not done today, it can most likely be done tomorrow (or next week) with little impact on the outcome.

I’m trying to embrace a lifestyle where there is literally NO ONE keeping score.

It’s a different kind of challenge.

But one I’m working to meet.

Yay! for naps.

The rest and the spell

Author: Melanie

I am a shepherd, wife and mother of four amazing children, three that walk the earth with me and one who lives with Jesus. This is a record of my grief journey and a look into the life I didn't choose. If you are interested in joining a community of bereaved parents leaning on the promises of God in Christ, please like the public Facebook page, "Heartache and Hope: Life After Losing a Child" and join the conversation.

2 thoughts on “Yay For Naps!”

  1. I’m not ok. I’m sick of trying to be ok for everyone around me. I’m so tired of being me.

    On Thu, May 20, 2021 at 2:02 AM thelifeididntchoose wrote:

    > Melanie posted: ” Historically many of the most prolific and influential > people (think Winston Churchill) have been proponents of mid-day naps. But > for a Type-A personality whose life experience has amplified internal > voices that scream, “Make every moment count!” n” >

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  2. Nana naps became a must on going back to work after Luke died. I just could do the 8am start and carry on through when I got home at 2pm. What with segmented sleep during the night it was the only way I could survive.

    When I retired a couple of years ago, my biggest difficulty was not having a routine. It took me almost a year to get used to it. I usually find now that I am still really active in the mornings and if I need to will go and have a toes up after usually a late lunch. 😴 On odd days I’m quite happy to sit and read all day 🤓

    I think I’m embracing my third age but then again I will be sixty nine in September, so why not.

    Sending love across the ocean ❤

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