It took me a little while to realize that if I was going to survive this lifelong journey I had to make some changes in how and when I responded to requests to do something, be somewhere or participate in outside events.
Because no matter how worthy the request, there was only so much of me to go around and I was forced to spend nearly all my energy and time and effort on figuring out how this great wound was impacting me and my family.
I cannot overemphasize how much strength and energy is needed to do the work grief requires.
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Grace and space…..I must remember this….
We just received, from one of Brian’s friends, a ‘save the date’ for the day after what will be Brian’s 10th year of leaving us….
I just don’t think we can do it.
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