I don’t want to take away any happy memories a parent may have of Halloweens past.
I know some families and some communities have celebrations that focus primarily on dressing up, more funny-than-scary traditions and even highlighting the connection between those who remain and those gone before that transcends generations.
I respect that.
What hurts MY heart (and maybe only my heart) is the elevation of death and dying to a spectator sport.
I’ll never get used to that. And I don’t want to get used to it.
❤ Melanie
Except for a few years early in childhood, I have never liked Halloween. The combination of darkness and creepiness makes my skin crawl.
And now, this side of child loss it makes me angry.
Why? Because for one night (really, for a couple of weeks!) Americans not only think about death, they spend millions of dollars celebrating it.
Not celebrating ACTUAL death-not the absolute horror of being told your child is gone, gone, gone. Instead it’s a fake, “funny”, silly made-up mockery of a very real, very awful truth.
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I totally agree! I too was never a fan of this holiday and I agree, the idea of making fun of the deceased just doesn’t sit right with me. On another note, I look forward to each email/post you write. It’s as if you are inside my shattered heart and grief stricken mind. God bless you. My Ryan passed 7 years ago, his birthday is November 3, he would be 34. Thanks again for sharing your journey, your thoughts, your grief. So very sorry for your loss.
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